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"מָה אַתְּ בִּשְׁבִילִי?"
שְׁאֵלָה שֶׁעַלְמָה, הַבַּת שֶׁל בֶּן זוּגִי, שָׁאֲלָה אוֹתִי וּמִבְּלִי לָדַעַת שָׁלְחָה אוֹתִי לְמַסָּע בְּתוֹכִי עַל מְנַת לְחַפֵּשׂ תְּשׁוּבָה מְסַפֶּקֶת עֲבוּר שְׁתֵּינוּ.
הֲרֵי אֲנִי לֹא אִמָּהּ הַבִּיּוֹלוֹגִית, וַאֲנִי בְּוַדַּאי לֹא רַק הָאִשָּׁה שֶׁל אַבָּא שֶׁלָּהּ.
אָז מָה אֲנִי בִּשְׁבִילָהּ?

דֶּרֶךְ הַחֲוָיָה שֶׁלִּי כְּבַת לְהוֹרִים גְּרוּשִׁים אֲשֶׁר הוֹרֶיהָ הִמְשִׁיכוּ לְפֶרֶק ב', וְדֶרֶךְ עֵינֶיהָ הָרְגִישׁוֹת שֶׁל עַלְמָה, הֵבַנְתִּי כִּי יֵשׁ הַרְבֵּה בִּלְבּוּל סְבִיב הַנּוֹשֵׂא.
סֵפֶר זֶה נוֹעָד לָתֵת מִילִּים וּמַשְׁמָעוּת לַחֲוָיוֹת וּתְחוּשׁוֹת שֶׁל יְלָדִים מְשׁוּלָּבִים, אִמָּהוֹת מְשַׁלְּבוֹת וּמִשְׁפָּחוֹת מְשׁוּלָּבוֹת (מִשְׁפָּחוֹת בְּפֶרֶק ב'). כְּמוֹ כֵן הַסֵּפֶר עוֹשֶׁה סֵדֶר בְּתוֹךְ מְצִיאוּת שֶׁיְּכוֹלָה לְהֵחָווֹת כִּמְבַלְבֶּלֶת מְאוֹד וּכְאַחַת שֶׁמְּלֻוָּה בְּהַרְבֵּה סִימָנֵי שְׁאֵלָה.
מֵהַנִּסָּיוֹן שֶׁלִּי, הַיְּלָדִים שֶׁלָּנוּ מְחַכִּים שֶׁנְּדַבֵּר אִיתָּם, שֶׁנִּתְעַנְיֵן בָּהֶם, שֶׁנִּרְאֶה אוֹתָם.
יֵשׁ בְּתוֹכָם עוֹלָם שָׁלֵם שֶׁל רְגָשׁוֹת שֶׁרַק מְחַכֶּה לְקַבֵּל בִּיטּוּי. בְּסוֹף הַסֵּפֶר מְצוֹרָפוֹת שְׁאֵלוֹת וּפְעִילוּיוֹת שֶׁיְּכוֹלוֹת לְסַיֵּיע בְּכָךְ.
הַסֵּפֶר מְעוֹדֵד שִׂיחַ רִגְשִׁי בֵּין הַהוֹרִים לַיְּלָדִים, מַעֲנִיק בִּטָּחוֹן וּתְחוּשַׁת שַׁיָּיכוּת לַיְּלָדִים הַמְּשׁוּלָּבִים וּבְעִיקָּר מְמַלֵּא אֶת הַקּוֹרְאִים בּוֹ בְּהַרְבֵּה אַהֲבָה וְתִקְוָה.

שְׁמִי לִיאוֹר, עוֹבֶדֶת סוֹצְיָאלִית קְלִינִית (msw), פְּסִיכוֹתֵרַפִּיסְטִית, מְטַפֶּלֶת בִּילָדִים, מִתְבַּגְּרִים וּמְבוּגָּרִים. מִיַּלְדּוּת וְעַד הַיּוֹם אֲנִי חוֹקֶרֶת בְּסַקְרָנוּת וְהִתְרַגְּשׁוּת אֶת נֶפֶשׁ הָאָדָם, נִפְעֶמֶת וּמִתְפַּעֶלֶת לְלֹא הַפְסָקָה מֵהַתַּהֲלִיךְ וּמְהַגִּלּוּיִים בַּדֶּרֶךְ.
בַּת זוּג שֶׁל דּוּדִיק וְאִמָּא – לְעוֹמֶר, הַבֵּן שֶׁלִּי מֵהַבֶּטֶן וְעַלְמָה, הַבַּת שֶׁלִּי מֵהַלֵּב.

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